Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
A lot of smart guys have various areas of life handled – kick-ass job, success in sports and hobbies, exciting lifestyle, awesome car, nice house – even plenty of hot babes swarming about. But still, something is lurking.
Like you’re not “good enough” for whatever it is you really want to have.
Feelings of worthlessness, shame, self-doubt can rear their ugly head and kick your will to succeed right in the cajones and have you on your knees crying uncle so fast your head will spin. And they can be serious as a heart attack.
So, how do you blast through these feelings and light a fire under your girl-getting game?
Have you ever considered how worthless, mostly, feelings of worthlessness are? They serve no one and nothing…but…
…There Is Also A Cosmic Truth Embedded In The Shit.
Like a nice shiny piece of summer corn buried deep inside a stinking piece of poop: MOST of the experiences we have in life are impermanent and don’t last.
That’s not a reflection on you at all. It is the case and part and parcel of how things are structured.
There is also an Aspect of Life that is everlasting and outside time.
Often “shame” or “worthlessness” is a corrupted view of a great truth: most things are impermanent, but at the same time, we all have one foot inside the Immortal.
Really, what we often seek, without naming it or being able to, is transcendence. The connecting in with That which is beyond locality or time and which is already the ground of who we are anyway as we move through the impermanence of life.
There is REAL suffering and REAL bliss in life. Birth is blissful once you are delivered, but the process fucking hurts; getting kicked out of the womb, squeezed with crushing pressure by the Cootchie of Life, being suffocated in the canal, coming out covered in mucus and goo, often choking on all sorts of body goop and fluids until it is cleared out, and then you are greeted with a SMACK on the ass and yet…
…What Relief!
What triumph…you survived and now here you are!
I would say: when you feel shame or lack of worth, ask, “inside of this, how much is a true view of the impermanence of life? And from the part of me that is already taking part in the Everlasting, how can I transmute, purify and redirect as energy for my growth and my vision, all of what used be felt energetically as shame and lack of worth?”
Do not be shamed that you came out of cootchie and will die and leave a sack of flesh shell. That’s not who You are and the journey between is what keeps us entertained on the Everlasting side as we remain outside of linear time, always have and always will.
Is this making sense?
Peace and piece,
RJ
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I’m srry Ross, it isn’t “cajones”, it is “cojones” XD
apart from that great post XD
You are starting to get too esoteric with this post. Come back to us Ross – you are loosing your groundedness!!!
Ross,
You have surpassed yourself this time in my opinion and have given me an inner glimpse of all that spirituality you used to pass off as bullshit. If you weren’t a guru of seduction, you would be seducing sinners from a pulpit or on top of a hill with both arms stretched out as you passionately deliver your sermon.
Seriously, what you have said is valuable but for some guys or people in life who live by the rules of bad experience will testify, it’s easier said than done. If someone has real fear or an aversion to do something and even when they summon up the courage to take the plunge and learn from the experience, the inner feelings of fear and irrational consciousness rear their ugly asses and screw things up and make the healing or the growth process a whole lot longer and more painful. In my opinion real change happens when a person decides to put enthusiastic energy into solving, growing and healing, whether it’s a painful process or not. There does come a time when we need to say, enough is enough, we can’t take anymore of this painful shit and life has to change. And this is what I believe you are referring to.
No, explain a bit more!
Beautiful. Maybe the word it’s “cojones” (balls) and not “cajones”? Cheers 🙂
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Caj%C3%B3n
Deep, man. Was it Christina who got you in the Zen groove? Or is this more Advaita Vedanta?
@jack
No but she and I happen to be interested in a lot of the same stuff. Fun.
Ross,
I forgot to say, you’ve killed the shit out of sarging, lets do something more interesting, like real hate shun ships ;)))))) yeeha cowboy
It makes a little bit of sense, but not much really. Where’s the tunnel at the end of the light?
@alex womaniser Haven’t you seen that video where Ross is handing out slices of cheese in the streets, asking people if they’ve accepted cheeses?
“would say: when you feel shame or lack of worth, ask, “inside of this, how much is a true view of the impermanence of life? And from the part of me that is already taking part in the Everlasting, how can I transmute, purify and redirect as energy for my growth and my vision, all of what used be felt energetically as shame and lack of worth?”
Sure, and then I get 72 virgins in paradise.
How about just being plain ol’ CONSTRUCTIVE? This vague mystic shit is just confusing– that’s how religion works, i.e. confusing people into believing whatever bullshit they tell you. That’s what gave us 9/11, i.a. 19 guys who were so horny and confused that they crashed 2 planes just to get laid in the afterlife, since they couldn’t get any on Earth.
@Brian: Why not put away that broad brush and try thinking instead of reacting? Spirituality is not the same thing as religion – and Ross isn’t forcing you to believe anything, nor telling you to hate anyone. See the difference?
Fanaticism is what causes people to see others as less than human, and justifies murder in that way. Your way of thinking – the immediate jumping to black/white, right/wrong, us/them scenarios – is a lot closer to fanaticism than anything Ross has said above. You might want to think about that for a bit.
That’s not to say that I agree (or disagree) with him. I simply found your polemic offensive as a response to someone who is genuinely trying to help people.