“Her Boyfriend Is My Neighbor – NOW What?”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many of my students – smart guys like you – have approached a woman, only to find out that not only does she have a boyfriend, but, small world, you know the guy! And he’s either someone you’re cool with, or at least, don’t want a problem with.

Hell, it’s happened to ME. I make my move on a hot babe, then find out that the boyfriend I was just trying to “destroy” is my neighbor, mail man, a guy at my gym with 32-inch biceps, whatever.

So what to do? Here’s a little situation my student got himself into last week…

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Hey Ross! I was at the gym the other night. Suddenly I saw this really hot co-ed on the treadmill right next to me. I did the small talk first and found that she is rather sweet as a person, but she has a “borefriend.” So I ran the Boyfriend Destroyer on her. Then, I decided it was time to leave. I went to set up a meeting with her. At first she paused…then smiled with her eyes looking to the left. Then she said okay. I asked her to meet at 5 the next day, and she said she’ll be at school. Then I said I’d pick her up at 8 then, and she said, “sorry I can’t.” Then she said…”why don’t you give me your number and I’ll call you.” I know enough and responded like you taught me.

Then, I saw her again today. Across the fence. Get this – her boyfriend is my neighbor! He’s a nice enough dude but I don’t wanna mess with him….ya know? Knowing I may have to leave an enticing message on her phone as the next step, not to mention handle this in such a way that my neighbor doesn’t come after me, do you have any suggestions for this sort of situation?

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EV-VERY TIME someone asks me what to do in this situation, I always ask the same question back …

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

Do you need drama in your life? Do you WANT your neighbor POed at you?

Look: get out of this scarcity/poverty mindset, and find women who ARE available and ready RIGHT NOW, who are ripe for the picking and don’t come with a poison worm already embedded in her apple.

Use my teachings on someone whose “borefriend” doesn’t know where you live.

Getting action from the chiseled, goddess-bodied hottie at the gym sure beats a poke in the eye…but don’t do something that might get you … literally … poked in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One more thought. Is it possible that something inside you has you flirting with the “low hanging fruit” – women who have boyfriends and are less likely to explore with you – so you avoid the risk of something life-changing actually happening – like getting the best lay of your life?

With no further need for assurance or guarantee of success before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, what if you could get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a%%, and get moving right now with the success with women you’ve always wanted?

Claim your copy of my Nail Your Inner Game Program and start turning things around now:

https://www.seduction.com/blog/nailyourinnergame/