Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
This post may at first appear to be off topic.
See, I ran into the Starbucks down by the beach for a quick cup of coffee, like I do often coming to/fro my meditation at the beach.
As I stepped to the counter to order, a fly or gnat or fly-gnat-thingie buzzed in front of my face so I quickly snapped out my hand and caught it..or so I thought at first.
Now that action of snapping out my hand caught the attention of a few people there.
Actually, what happened is, I interrupted giving my order, looked at the fly with directed focus and snapped out my hand.
Anyway, I held my closed fist and announced, ” I caught a fly”.
I said this with full belief, as at that moment, I thought I had it..I stayed with that belief, even though a few moments later I knew the fly was not there, as I could not feel the pressure of anything in my hand and I did not squeeze tight enough to kill it if it WAS there…it would have been moving.
Then I said (holding out my closed fist)…
“I think I’ll throw it at Tina”
(Tina is the girl behind the counter taking my order).
Tina got a look of horror and backed away, scared of insects.
The girl behind me said, “Don’t hurt the fly…just put it outside and let it go” with genuine concern!
One of the other girls behind the counter said, “I love flies..give it to me”.
I then opened my hand and said, “See…just ACTING!”.
I created a reality for you all because ***I*** believed in it and YOU each had different responses.
That’s what an actor does; projects full belief to create a reality and then the audience will have their own responses.
So It Is, My Friend, With Patterns
We create a reality through our firm belief, congruent actions, speech, gestures and then(and here is the thing);
THE WOMAN HAS HER OWN RESPONSES!
They may not be exactly what we planned, but that is ok.
We just take the responses she gives us (Fear of the fly, sympathy for the fly or desire for the fly) and build and direct them towards where we want her to go.
Can you do that without memorizing anything, but rather using the skills?
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. If you haven’t cracked open your instant online access to Speed Seduction® 3.0, why the fukc are you waiting?
I mean really, the women are waiting. So what in the name of Tina’s trousers are you waiting FOR?