A Student’s Journey To Juicy Joy: Part 1

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Last week I shared a video lesson called “Kill The Mystery” where I explained what it really means when a woman says the “C” word (as in, “chemistry”). Based on the barrage of e-mails and blog comments I’ve received, it really struck a nerve.

In fact, one of my best students sent me a Sarge report on how he applied Speed Seduction® in his interactions with a woman to stimulate  desire, overcome her resistance, and ultimately create an amazing experience that will enrich the rest of his life.

Over the next 3 days, I am going to share with you exactly what went down and how it all worked out, with a few of my own observations.  So without further ado….let’s get started:

Part 1: A “Power-Packed” Approach

Recently, my student was introduced to a woman by her best friend.  Using what I teach, he engaged her in some playful banter, focusing on the fun and enjoyment of the interaction.

On that first night they met (when they were surrounded by friends), he established a deep, emotional connection, using techniques such as getting her to open up about her feelings, hopes and dreams and evoking bright images throughout detailed descriptions and well-chosen adjectives. Ultimately he anchored her love for coffee to help her recall the feelings of comfort and relaxation she seemed to need (she had recently gotten out of a real-hate-shun-ship and had been quite busy in life).  Then he “closed” her by scheduling their next meeting, a more personal, one-on-one interaction.

For their next meeting, they went to a bookshop with a nice cafeteria and spent 5 hours talking about their dreams and passions.  Through it all, he maintained a constant and subtle teasing pattern, to remind her he wasn’t a “friend” to take for granted, but a non-needy man who was enjoying time with her.

OK… so far, so good!

What can we take away from the first leg of this student’s journey with this woman?

First, he is clear on the ultimate goal.  Of course, he’s looking to succeed, get laid, take things to a whole ‘nother level.  However, he remains interested in her, but not invested in the result.  He focuses on enjoying his time with her, not “how can I get this chick in bed right now?”  This is critical.

Remember: when you are Sarging on a woman, the ultimate goal is not to succeed with this one woman, but to hone and sharpen the skills that will get you results with her AND the next ten women who cross your path.

Note, also, how he uses the information she gives him  to capture her vibe and anchor her passions.  With Speed Seduction®, it’s all about using her vibe as a roadmap that leads straight to the Cape Carnal-Veral shuttle pointed at her poonanny.

Tomorrow, we’ll delve into what happened on their third meeting….for now, leave your comments below!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’m covering all of this, and much more, in my upcoming seminars.  The next one is next weekend, in New York City.  Have you signed up yet?  We’ve just filled a number of seats and pretty soon I will need to close the doors to maintain the interactive nature of the seminar.  Don’t be left out in the cold ==> http://www.rjseminar.com/nyc/