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    Art A May 5, 2010, 6:46 pm

    She is an awesome find. GREAT info great energy and she is obviously good to teach the guys what they need to know, from a true Woman’s perspective who understands better than any other woman out there.

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      Ross Jeffries May 5, 2010, 6:59 pm

      I think I’ll “neg” her next time I see here. “Hey…you are so cute the way your nose bobs up and down when you talk!”

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    Art A May 5, 2010, 6:47 pm

    Thanks for sharing this woman with the community Ross. I am thoroughly impressed with the info she presents and wish I could’ve met her at the last seminar.

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      Ross Jeffries May 5, 2010, 6:58 pm

      Ha ha. Could you just imagine some of the PUA knuckleheads trying their shit on her?

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    antonio May 5, 2010, 8:19 pm

    Hey ross thanks for all the info and videos in the past and present i’m always learning new info and knowledge is power is funny that she was showing interest in you cause all the signals but really man thanks and i’m always be ready for the new stuffyou give.

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    sorue poscendo May 5, 2010, 8:39 pm

    whoa… she’s on point, the neediness and mom issues… wow, that was something, i learned the hard way to figure that one out.. and women, most of the time, won’t believe or are just on guard, with the words we say to them, that the only things they can rely on, are our other parts ;).. energies, voice tone, body language.. lol, and yeah.. she’s a PUA’s nightmare, she’s probably knows the one, style fell for in his book lmao.. women, really are an, exercise in mental discipline… with all the conditionings done to us and them, we really do have, a hell of a road ahead of us, but, the sweet is never as sweet, without the bitter.. and sasha has that, cutesy jen love hewitt, party of five thing goin on, she’d catch alot of men of guard.. great post Ross, *****five stars*****

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    Discomutt May 5, 2010, 9:06 pm

    wow ok that was mostly good but i heard a lot of Dr Phil/Oprah if you can’t love yourself no one else will love you type stuff. Also Ross a lot of over validation of your teaching experience…i think it was at least 4 times you mentioned your “20 years” of teaching. Your stuff is great and i love it all it just seemed to me like an unneeded “DHV” type thing i have seen from other PUA types. The last bit of info was the best on how to deal with when she”flakes” It’s like calling her on BS but just in case it’s not BS it’s still ok.

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      Ross Jeffries May 9, 2010, 9:22 am

      I think I mentioned it once and that you need to learn to count.

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    sony sand May 6, 2010, 10:59 pm

    Why a women thinks that a men is responsible for hers feelings? A women should take the responsability of her feelings according to the situation she is in, or as I think. Anybody who doesnt have the control of his own feelings or brain is lost, I guarantee you for this, no matter if is women or men.

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    Q May 7, 2010, 4:43 am

    “negging” and all the other PUA stuff is O-N-L-Y for HB 9 to 10!! Sasha is HB 7.5, maybe HB 8; so you’re right Ross, “negging” won’t work with her. But….. who cares about a HB8?

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      Ross Jeffries May 9, 2010, 9:21 am

      1. I suggest that we keep an open mind about who knows what.

      2. You are saying how good a woman looks determines whether we should listen to her seriously? ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

      3. If it’s all about a woman’s looks, yes, I agree with rating systems based only on looks.


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    Diño May 7, 2010, 2:16 pm

    It made think of a few distinctions, first the distinction between beeing needy or weak and to be vulnerable. Actualy showing your vulnerability makes you human, and is more an expression of strength than any other, it shows you don´t have to act like a monkey in order to make a good impression on anybody, since you´re ok with yourself. It´s being inside yourself but open to whatever happens, not leaning forward to get her approval. The thing about being in contact with your body, meditation can help on this, since you can energetically start to get a kind of satisfaction independent of others. This gives you an inner strength which becomes noticeable by anyone who surrounds you, speacilly woman. But it´s necessary to find a ballance between being in touch with yourself and others.

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    David Black May 7, 2010, 4:04 pm

    The Cobra… sounds like a ninja assassin spy 😉

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    Ken May 8, 2010, 1:20 am

    First off, sorue poscendo, your entire post has to be THE most EPIC run-on sentence I have ever seen in my entire life. The English Language just called, it wants its grammar back.
    Loved this video, Ross, and I’m anxiously awaiting the next part

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    frank May 8, 2010, 5:26 pm

    fine insight and validation from a strong and experienced woman

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    Kharami May 11, 2010, 3:31 pm

    Ross, I cant hear I thing. I would love to hear more, about what I really…Of coarse I will attend a seminar soon in Bay Area, but for now…how can I get to listen to you interviewing “The Sasha Cobra”? I am using a iMac…shouldn’t make a difference but sometimes it does…Can You Comment, Gratefully Yours…one who appreciates Shingens Teachings, let alone the correct spelling. Thnks

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    Kharami May 11, 2010, 3:34 pm

    whow, just re-reading what was written…sorry the dyslexia is kicking in over time here, glad I can do public speaking like a stallion but for writing…help needed!

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    Frankster May 11, 2010, 5:32 pm

    She has a big ass forehead…..

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    Iztok May 11, 2010, 7:10 pm

    I love it how you include your multi-dimension
    perspective into your teachings. It just makes it so
    Its getting
    close to impossible to say no to your seminar!

    All the best, I

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    Clifford Campos May 11, 2010, 9:17 pm

    Sound to me, that she is saying women have a good excuse for them flaking even if its lame….it’s unacceptable to me ….I am wrong???

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    Justin May 11, 2010, 9:44 pm

    I had a question about women who have already set you in that ‘friend’ frame. If you were to basically change your behaviour to reflect that masculine dynamic that Sasha is talking about how would if affect those girls who see you as a friend? Sasha states that women are recievers does this mean she would treat you differently? Would this cause confusion for her? This is more about curiosity about how it will affect my current relationships as I learn and intigrate more and more of Ross’ teachings.

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    Q May 12, 2010, 12:59 am


    my english is not very good…. hope you understand me anyhow


    Of course, it’s not ALL about a woman’s looks.

    BUT people who look good experience their social environment different from average or even ugly looking people. E.g., if you’re pretty, you are punished less hard (whatever your age may be). If you’re pretty, people assume that you are a “good soul”. And people tend to try to please you.

    Because of that, there is a correlation between looks and responding to a specific behaviour. So, if you use Pickup skills like negging or DHV on women 9’s appeal completely different to these seduction tools!!

    PUAs are not “knuckleheads trying their shit on women”. They create emotional states as well as you Ross, but they use different methods. OK, if it’s calibrated wrong, PUA stuff may seem like “trying shit on women”. But I don’t understand why you always try to put them down.

    Have a nice day Ross!


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      Ross Jeffries May 14, 2010, 3:13 pm

      Because I think there work is rudimentary at best and that they really don’t understand what men need to succeed.


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    Q May 12, 2010, 1:05 am


    sorry, a line was missing:

    […] Because of that, there is a correlation between looks and responding to a specific behaviour. So, if you use Pickup skills like negging or DHV on women lower than 9, they’ll probably get angry or feel insulted or think that they are “not enough”, while women higher than 9 appeal completely different to these seduction tools!!


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    Damien May 12, 2010, 7:49 am

    FIRSTLY: please stop murdering the english language

    SECONDLY: girls are NOT that difficult to figure out. The more you practice the easier figuring out how to bang girls is

    THIRDLY: girls find a few things attractive, one being confidence. the more you practice picking up girls (whether its with Ross’ speed seduction or your own trial-and -error campaign) the easier it becomes and the more confident you become.

    FOURTH: there are LOTS of girls out there, if you screw up with one move on to another, then another and then another. “That” girl doesn’t exist. The girl who you have never quite been able to mac and only calls you her “friend” (except that one time you managed to ply her with booze and cocain) is not worth your time and energy.

    im sure there are hundreds more points i could put down but really it all boils down to getting off your ass, away from the computer and into situations where you can practice practice practice.

    ps, its easy to get your confidence up by starting with a girl who doesnt intimidate you so much you pee your pants right off the bat.

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    Damien May 12, 2010, 8:17 am

    oh and i couldnt watch the whole vieo but as far as i am concerned she is right, you dont “need” anything from women. you “need” to have sex in order to pro-create, just like you need water to survive. you “want” to bang every hot girl in sight because you are a red-blooded man.

    my father always told me
    “we take girls out son, to convince them we dont want to sleep with them when we really do”

    best advice ever.

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    Oren May 12, 2010, 10:02 am

    Great interview.
    I cant wait to see part II.

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    Tony May 12, 2010, 10:20 pm

    After the first interview I sent sasha a message at sashacobra.com and she still hasn’t gotten back to me ! Anyway Ross, thankyou for this second video of sasha to us guys and I hope there are more to come. I sense from some of the responses that there are younger guys who only talk about sasha’s looks and wanting to bag her ! I understand, but give me a break. Instead guys try to follow what sasha and Ross are saying. Ross I wish you could ask her more questions about what difficulties your students are telling you like their top 10 questions. You didn’t ask her why women don’t just reject guys but do it humiliatingly. Most guys understand rejection but to humiliate him is unforgivable to do to a guy and I don’t believe in turning the cheek on this issue. You havn’t asked her what are the manly qualities a girl is looking for in a man other than a backbone or strength of character. What are they ? Name them. Don’t be vague ! And don’t say ‘be yourself’ because you can change yourself to a better yourself so what is it ??? She also said something funny: ‘if she flakes then go over what you did, said, leading up to the flake’ ! But as you cast your eye over your shoulder watching the events unfold, they will all seem perfectly normal to you, so theirs little or no scope to learn from what to and what not to do leading up to the flake. That’s unless you have a someone there to guide you or a template to work off otherwise your wasting your time. The truth is some guys get it while others don’t. They get other things. Finally, Ross can you turn this into an MP3 link for downloading ? Thankyou.

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      Ross Jeffries May 14, 2010, 3:12 pm

      Yes, I don’t believe in “be yourself” either and I don’t think she said that.

      I believe in designing and continually stepping into your “best self”.

      That self has a broad range of responses and vibes, knows how to move through and around the bullshit women throw around, when to be kind, when to be stern, etc.

      And building that self is like working on an ongoing, every changing art masterpiece-a mural or a sculpture that is continually being refined, sometimes according to your vision and will, sometimes according to the art itself guiding your hands. Sometimes you will flow, other times you will be stuck as hell.

      That’s life as art.

      And I agree: many times we can’t see clearly what we did or did not do and we can’t mind-read the women who won’t even talk to us. So her advice could lead to more ruminating than doing.


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    Brock Landers May 13, 2010, 3:03 am

    While I agree with much of what she says, there is something wholly DIShonest and incongruent about her. It came across right from the beginning when she was plugging her services (which is clearly what she was here to do), as if she was not confident in what it is that she does and its real value compared to what she actually charges (watch it again at 1:30-1:40). I agree with her words but do not TRUST her. She also has a mild to moderate case of “Question Inflection Disorder”. “Um, the reason why a lot of men find them selves being NEEDY? is because feeling, like, a LACK? in regards to how they feel about themselves.” I mean, is she asking (?) us or is she telling us?

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      Ross Jeffries May 14, 2010, 3:04 pm


      I appreciate the honest feedback.

      A few things:

      First, she and I explicitly agreed she could “plug” her services. So she was not violating any trust. And yes, she was definitely there to do that, but also to teach as well.

      I think she needs to work on her presentation skills, among them exactly what you pointed out. By the way, while she’s not Canadian, I have found that Canadians from the eastern part of that country do that same inflection with a question thing.

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    Xavier May 14, 2010, 12:38 pm

    Thank you for this interview. It’s very interesting to hear the view point of a clever woman.

    I’m waiting for the second part.

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    X May 15, 2010, 10:27 am

    I loved the way she interrupted RJ (about 14min and 45sec).
    Could you feel her female anergy sharing and following the conversation?
    I may sau that RJ feels the energy of COBRA getting in. =)

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    K.K. May 15, 2010, 11:26 am

    GOLD!!! I’m glad you said that…When a woman says “I want a man to just be himself”, I think it’s a half-truth. Yes, they want us to ‘be ourselves’, but they also want the best POSSIBLE version of us that we can be. Strong, smart, wealthy, altruistic, skilled. No woman would have wanted Ted Bundy to “just be himself”, they probably would have said “I really like your charm, Ted, if you could just lose the serial-killer thing…”

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    K.K. May 15, 2010, 11:52 am

    Also, not putting down Ms. Cobra in any way, however, her site claims her work as costing $225 an hour and up. If she was a dentist, I’d say great. If she only provides ideas, that’s a bit steep. I get $75 an hour when I’m in a s.a.g. film and I think I’m overcharging (don’t wonder why movies cost X million dollars). It’s just my two cents (ha) but when ‘gurus’ charge super-high rates, the people that need their help the most just can’t afford it and social improvement in general creeps forward at a snail’s pace…

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    SL May 16, 2010, 5:37 pm

    Ross, this lady is great for teaching us what we NEED to know. Her insight has helped me a lot. I don’t call, I don’t ask. I get hit on. Weird but it started after I first started listening to you. She is right. If you are comfortable in your skin, she will know it. Keep up up the great work and post the second part of Sasha’s interview.

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    Xarma May 17, 2010, 1:44 pm

    I like how you put down those asshole-PUAs Ross..:)

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