Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,
As I point out in my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course, one of the keys to energy-efficient, low effort(read “lazy ass”) seduction where the women do most of the work is applying the 3 “S’s”: Screening, Selectivity, and Standards.
Today I was at the local Starbucks for some late morning coffee, when I put this principle into effect.
You see, as I was enjoying my medium-size espresso add-shot I started casually chatting with a woman in her mid-thirties who turned out to be Polish.
Now, to look at, this lady was pretty hot.
But then she opened her mouth.
She told me about her childhood, where she lived in a town on the German/Polish border called “Frankenstein”. How she used to play in the shadow of the Castle. How the memories of the cold and the shadows still call to her at times in her mind.
You think I’m making this up, don’t you?
No. Remember, I live in LA. Fruit-loops and hooples like this are the rule, not the exception.
But here is the thing: back when I was utterly clueless about women, I would have jumped at the chance to get into the short and curlies of a girl who looked this good. I had no process for screening women, and I had no standards, and no selectivity.
Today? Well, assuming for a moment that I didn’t have my lovely and smoking hot Swedish sweetheart, Pernilla, and that I was single again, even then I wouldn’t touch this “Young Frankensteinette” with a ten foot pole. I know how difficult whack-jobs can be, and they are actually, contrary to rumour, awful in bed.
(If of course your view of sex is that it is only about stimulation and discharging your load, you might see it differently than I. Personally, it has to be more than a living centerfold come to life so I can use their body to jack off).
Here is the biggest irony: the more selective a man is, the greater the selection a man has.
A hard path to follow when you haven’t been touched by a woman in a long time, but exercising that awareness and discipline in action can swing your bedroom door wide open to a fabulous flow of cuties who are also damn fine human beings.
Peace, piece and Merry Fukken’ Babyjesusbirthday
RJ
P.S. Check out your 3.0 Course here.
Arg Ross I paid for that info when I bought gold walk ups now your giving it away lol 🙂 that’s okay think what your doing is fantastic. Where other picks up artist are E-mailing me telling me to purchase their latest $1000 boot camp or $500 E book. (They all say they have the product that is revolutionary and will change pick up forever) They just do not get it. Not only do they not seem to have any understanding of the way the economy is. But they must think that their is a huge recession proof market of desperate lonely men with thousands of $ to blow on pick up advice. I can see you genuinely want to help people. You are the only person as far as I can tell in the seduction community. That is giving away so much awesome content for free. Now I don’t agree with everything you say. However any product I have purchased from you has been delivered on time and sometimes faster than I thought it would be .I live in Canada have had no problems whatsoever with shipping. I quite honestly think if the rest of the pick up community do not wake up to the fact. That there is a worldwide recession going on and a much more honest and newer marketing model is needed. They are going to end up eating your dust. Ross. One of your competitors who’s name I will not mention because I do not want a lawsuit I purchased a product from him received part of the product. It was a set of two soft cover books. Upon emailing support after having waited over 5 months for my second book. The first E-mail I got back was a promo from his spamer. Suggesting that I purchase his latest $600 revolutionary product. Needless to say I will no longer be making purchases from that gentleman. Good work Ross keeps it up. 🙂
Monk, I can PROMISE you on my cats, my parents’ sacred memory, and the love of my awesome girlfriend, Pernilla-the Swedish bombshell-that you haven’t even seen 1/10th of what I am going to give away for free.
You are right; the market is going to be shaken to the core by the changing economic times. And people are fed-up with being bombarded with endless content-free marketing messages, with no real use or value.
I know who you are talking about and you aren’t the only person to complain. I’ll speak to his lawyer who is a friend of mine about the ongoing issue. Not my responsibility, but I will.
And…just wait and see…just wait. You won’t believe what I am going to be doing in the beginning of 2009. It will be “Pearl Harbor Day” for my competition.
RJ
http://www.rjcoaching.com
Hey Ross,
I actually live 40 miles from “Frankenstein”, which used to be the German name of the town until 63 years ago. BTW, the town is actually 100 miles from the Polish/German border. The Polish name (Zabkowice Slaskie – I dare you to pronounce it – something like “zome-bkoveetza shlounskea” 😉 ) has nothing to do with the German one, but the latter is used to attract tourists and locals use it to impress strangers… Which I do not imply was the case in the conversation you wrote about 😉
Peace and peas,
Mike