Dear Speed Seduction® Students,
Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?
Why, yes, my horny disciples. Yes indeedy do!
Here is an example:
Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.
In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.
Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).
She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”
I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH. When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”
She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”
I said, “That’s right. French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”. (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”
Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened. As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.
At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.
(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray. Once I hook ’em, I gotta overlook ’em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)
In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:
“So hard…”
“Hard inside you”
“New direction/nude erection”
“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”
“Suck seed/succeed”
“Go down”
“Put it in your mouth”
When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself. Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!
Have fun and let me know how it goes…
Piece and peace,
RJ
P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch. What say ye to this? It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.
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I say, that would be a great idea! You have my vote Ross!
I’m a fan, Ross, but that’s just creepy and weird to be talking to girls like that.
@Peter I’m sure if YOU did it, it would come off creepy.
Interesting.
What do you think of this put-on.
To flight attendant (Said seriously with concern):
Excuse me, where do you keep the parachutes?
She’ll respond, and you reply (in the most corny way possible):
Because when I saw you my heart leaped/jumped and it needs a soft place to touch down {gesture towards her groin}. You’re not going to be hard on my heart are you {hold chest, point down}?
Do you have a package deal on all your products?
@Randy Given today’s fear of terrorism, I don’t think asking about parachutes would go very well. A package deal on all products? Email: shophelp@seduction.com and we’ll see what we can do.
RJ
It WORKS, Peter. If you can subtly insert sexual double entendres into the convo, it usually will get a woman turned on to some degree. The more attracted to you she is beforehand, the better it works. If she says something about it, you act innocent and accuse her of having a dirty mind.
Man, Ross, you make it sound so easy. I really need to practice this technique more.
Yes Yes Yes …where’s my credit card
G’day Ross
This works well for me.
Have you ever had a peak experience- an experience that made all those feeling you have– move inside your body —flowing through you so that the experience became so intense that every fibre of your body was alive—an experience that was so intense — you became the experience and, you will always have fond memories of the that experience lock away in that place– deep inside of you– where you hold thing sacred —- now with me that’s the way I feel when I —————–(Put something in here, some activity etc) . Can you relate to such an intense experience? Can you remember such a peak experience like me (touch the lady—I usually touch them on the top of their arm or place my hand on their leg if they are sitting.)
I find that one of two things usually happens
• the women start talking – so keep quiet and listen OR
• They recall the experience and go all quiet—-their eyes give them away— If this is the case I say —
I know you know what I mean ( touch the lady again in the same spot as you touch her before )can you remember that experience now.
See Ya
Grey
oh yes, and the dilated pupils are the result of the fight or flight reflex, she was probably subconsciously very scared and piss off, and since you were a client she just didnt knew how to handle the situation, so she basically felt trapped, so you see thats not a good beginning for anybody, but since you are a creep and all of your so called theories are just about instigating fear, THEY ARE USELESS and create RESENTMENT, I HOPE YOU DIE A PAINFULL DEAD, I WOULD KILL YOU AND THE LIKE YOU, PIECE BY PIECE, SLOWLY MAKE YOU EAT YOUR OWN INTESTINES USELESS SHIT, CRASH YOUR TESTICULES AND PENIS TILL THEY BECOME A DENSE LIQUID THAT I CAN MIX WITH GASOLINE AND LET IT BURN TILL ITS OVER, FUCK YOU LOSER!!! FUCK YOU MOTHERFUCKER!!! THE DAY YOU DIE, I WILL JUMP IN JOY FOR SHITS LIKE YOU MAKE THIS WORLD A SHITTY PLACE!!!
HOW YOU THINK WOMEN FEEL WHEN YOU SPEAK AT US LIKE THAT??? WE FEEL TRASH OUT!!! SOME MAY NOT KNOW IT, SOME OTHERS MANY NOT FULLY ACKNOWLEDGE IT, BUT ALL OF AS FEEL IT!!! FUCK YOU USELESS SHIT!!
@Nice Girl. Yep, that’s mighty “Nice’ of you.
RJ
@Nicegirl So….like…what are you trying to say?
Nice girl is a bit angry because your students have taken all the good women and now she’s a little short on her scisorring
I’d definitely be interested Ross. It’d be nice to have just to keep every conversation I have with a woman I like sexual. I imagine having those skills will assist me with some serious “water off a ducks back” attitude to whether she wants to sleep with me or not.
p.s. I don’t know why so many people see women as weak and feeble. I have more faith in them than that
“and the dilated pupils are the result of the fight or flight reflex, she was probably subconsciously very scared and piss off, and since you were a client she just didnt knew how to handle the situation, so she basically felt trapped”
-And-
“and the dilated pupils are the result of the delight reflex, she was probably subconsciously very surprised and taken back that a male would make this much effort to please her, and since you were a client she just didnt knew how to handle the situation, so she basically felt the little man in the boat rocking”
Hi, My names ruk,
Perception differs from person to person.
This actually brings to light my learning curve, (It had the turning circle of Jupiter) but I welcome the challenge, if it strikes me down I will become stronger than you could possibly imagine……..Anyway…..I’m going off the subject slightly here,…If I have my “previous” little learning curve issue straight, The 2 statements are both based on the same actual event and are both made real based on the way you perseve it and the beliefs behind it.
That’s what I think….Have you ever seen those illusion pictures where you can see 2 different pictures? If not google “oldyoung” and then on images…..i.m.a.g.e.s…
Someone please respond and tell me i’m not going MAD
I don’t know if you mentioned this but its also REALLY FUN to make sexual metaphors because, (as immature as i can be) Its SEXUAL.
You can laugh about it and play around and its so much fun to see how they will react good. bust those barriers guys! and if she needs the comfort you can always provide it. i mean, i was a “nice guy”, that was my specialty before SS so now when you look at that as a skill you can use, you can burst boundaries fearlessly since you can so easily make her feel comfort and safety.
Ross. i would like to report on something that really benefited me, not just in SS, but also in speaking and relating in general. I was always quite good at it but this pushed the envelope a bit further.
Reading the language patterns and experiencing them inside.
i must have read them hundreds of times (with the intent of picking up the structure) but when you.. slow down.. and read.. with full attention.. to imagining how it would be.. in your life.. its like you.. make a connection.. to the feelings.. and the deeper parts of.. yourself.. that allow you to say with emotion, the language patterns.
man ross “language patterns” sounds so mechanical. It is what it is, but i wish there was a natural sounding word that people connect with easier.