How Was Your Weekend?

Two weekends ago, I met this girl I see around at school on facebook. My friend says she looks 9/10 but in my eyes she’s a 10. I have had other girlfriends before in the past but none even remotely close to being as hot as this girl. She is the most wanted girl in my faculty. She is 20yrs old, very strong Christian, very interesting to talk to, nice sense of humor. She also says she is a virgin and has never been in a relationship. We started chatting via blackberry and the next day we went to a cinema to see… Love and other drugs.

The date went ok… she did a lot of talking. I tried to do a connection pattern on her (1st time I have tried it) and I really fumbled with the words and delivery. I tried to kiss her afterwards… She refused and was quite cold about it… Saying we r just friends and it will be awkward for her. I was a little afraid that I had lost her and so angry at myself for not memorizing and practicing the connection pattern more that when I got home I basically crammed everything that night.

So after 2 days I called her up and asked for another date watching soccer uefa champions league at a bar and she accepted. I then delivered a fall in love pattern really focused on the embedded commands, kino and self pointing in the car. Her eyes lit up immediately and she became really responsive and I knew I had struck a nerve. At the end of d date during goodbye hugs, I held on and we kissed and uh! she’s such a passionate kisser. She calls me all the time now and I can tell that she is just waiting for me to ask her out and make it official. On a normal day would definitely have been stuck in the friend zone

No moist pink relief for me yet with this girl but I now feel like I know exactly what I am doing and it is only a matter of time. Its a feeling of power I am experiencing and I can’t wait to test it on the most wanted girl in the whole university.

Thank Ross.

Downer friends drained me Saturday afternoon. Got a (strictly therapeutic) massage afterward to get some positive interaction and initiated and led the conversation and generally had a lot of fun talking and getting very positive responses. Nothing to brag about, but major progress for me. Same with haircut Sunday. Still working on the walk-ups. Most recent insight is that I’m very consistently getting positive non-verbals, women making themselves *unambiguously* approachable, and my reflexive response is still coming from pain and “I’ll show you what it’s like to be rejected.” Realizing that has tempered it somewhat.

I got one for you Ross. so i have been going out with this girl for about 3 months. This girl is fun, sexy and always a joy to be around. i got this girl by using some patterns like the incredible connection, discover channel and twin bro and by having a strong, confident and playful vibe. she really hooked it to them and now this chick is all about me. I like hanging with the girl but the problem is i just moved away. we are only an hour from each other so the distance isnt to big, but know im wondering what i should do. Do i stay with her and only see her on the weekend or do i break it off and let sargefest 2011 take over.

Thanks ross

WOW I am very impressed with your story…it makes me more motivated to memorized the DISCOVERY PATTERN that I’m half way thru memorizing.

Had the opportunity to talk to several girls on my weekend job but I must say I flubbed up the timing and soul of my responses. Just a little out of practice on my self control coming out of a long dark period in my life. Kinda find it hard to appear interested in what others are saying to me during a conversation as I cant focus away from my own self interests. I am glad though that my botched pick up attempts no longer hurt my self image like they used to so I am improving. I am actually drawing power from them in a weird way. I refuse to let these bimbos see me crawl.

This week i just begun the real sarging in the field
it’s been 2 years since i was exposed to speed seduction material
and it was 2 years of theoretical studying (i know im fucked up )
but suddenly when i went sarging and do my energy grounding exercise you teach
and suddenly im sarging 25 women the first day
i did something similar to (many the marcian)to practice relaxing my self while watching their responses
and for 4 days now im living a state of heightened awareness and enlightenment i can read people easily now and understand people (not only women)in a deep level
maybe the energy i suppressed for 2 years is released now
and everything i’ve studied is making sense Cause sometimes while talking to a girl (i can remember lines from your LA99 Seminar )

THaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaanks alot For you My teacher Ross jeffries

it did not work,need another method

Hello Ross and Community

I have now been with someone for 5 months. The relationship is a bit on and off, as I assume most are (this is my first relationship for this long of a time). On and off meaning that we are great together sometimes, but fight often, and we actually break up often, but then get back together.

Im wondering if all relationships are like this, if I am doing something wrong, and how I can use SS to create more stability in the relationship. After all, SS is about creating states in the woman, and after the state passes, shes just as unstable as always.

I have absolute confidence in the techniques to change her state (to get lust, horniness, etc.), but my question is if it is possible/how I can create deeper, longer lasting, more subtle changes in her that will help create stability in the relationship without having to constantly run patterns or pattern language.

Thanks everyone