Dear Speed Seduction Students,
Wow. Just wow. You are really giving me some great stories about your own crazy chick encounters.

Please know that I read each comment and respond to each one. And I’ll pick a winner for “Craziest Chick Story” soon.

Now, as promised, here is MY crazy chick story.

About 10 years ago I met this chick at a party.  She was a bit wary of me, but after I literally walked away from her, she wound up running after me, outside the party, and handing me her number. (Was this the first hint?)

Cut to about 4 days later. She’s over at my place. I give her the art tour of my place, pointing out the various comic art, etc.

We go to my bedroom and I show her a painting done by one of my friends at the time; it’s Eve right after she took a bite of the apple.  She seems unusually fixated on it, but I thought nothing of it(Warning sign number two?)

She notices a book on my book shelf about remote viewing, and asks if she can borrow it.  “Ok,” I think. “No big deal”. So I lend it to her.

We wind up doing the nasty thing, she leaves my place, and that’s that. Or so I think.

About a week later I get a Hannukah card from her. It basically says how happy she was to meet me, what a great night she had, and Happy Hannukah to me and my cat.

It Gets Super-Werid HERE!

So I’m sitting at California Pizza Kitchen when I get a call from Nutso.  She says, “I just wanted to tell you that I only sent you that card to wish you Happy Hannukah and NO OTHER REASON(shouting this last bit with quite some anger).

Ah…say what?

“Ok….” I manage to stammer.

Then she drops the bomb

“I want to ask you a question. I want to know and I want the truth. Are….you…a….remote…viewer?”

(Pause here for a second: “remote viewing” allegedly involves the psychic act of mentally tapping into a “target” and describing information about the target, usually by sketching what the viewer sees . Google it!)

“Uh…no” I reply “Why?”

“Because I have your book that you lent me and I think you ARE a remote viewer. And I think you are part of the harrassment progrgam and you KNOW IT!”(Screaming that last part so loud the person sitting next to me heard it through my phone’s earpiece and turned to look at me!)

But she wasn’t done.

“That painting on the wall in your room?  Every night since my trip to Mexico where those two men who wait outside my house and follow me to work first met me, I have that electronic buzzing in my head that wakes me up. And the night before I met you at that party, the buzzing woke me up and I saw a holographic image of that painting, projected in the air in front of me. SO I KNOW IT IS YOU!”

Heard enough?

This dinged-damsel procedes to tell me that she is going to sue me, sue my “masters at the CIA”, etc etc.

My response? “Lady, you are fucking crazy.  CRAZY. Get help. Professional help. And never call me again.”

Can you believe it?

What do you think? Can you top this?

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. 6 months later I get my book back the mail, with a lovely “thank you note” telling me how much she enjoyed meeting me and inviting me to coffee! YOWWWWWSA! NUTTEEEEEE!!!!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students

It would be no exaggeration to say that many women in today’s modern world are, to put it mildly “a little bit dinged”.

From the “Fatal Attraction” violent loonies, to the loopy New-Age “dolphin channelers”, whacked out femmes are in abundant supply.

Zack’s Nightmare Beyatch From Hades

Case in point: last week, I hung out with a friend I haven’t seen in years, my old buddy Zack. And he was telling me about his last girlfriend whom he dated for a year.

“Man, RJ, “he said. “She was fucking NUTS!”

Here is what he told me: after he told her he was breaking up with him, she walked into his apartment while he was about to fall asleep, after he had taken an Ambien(which he uses for insomnia).

She opens up his mouth and feeds him the remaining 5 pills in the bottle!

I shit you not.

The chick tried to OD him while he was already zonked out!

It gets better:  she gets on his Myspace page and proceeds to deface it with false confessions of liking kiddie porn, tax evasion, etc etc etc.

And so, dear reader, while you may not have had some savagely insane skank try to feed you dangerous meds while you already are in a stupor, I’m sure you’ve met your own nutty nut bars of some kind.

So I open it for discussion below: how do YOU define “Crazy Chick”? What are the various categories and types of Loop-de-Loop chicas that populate our modern world?

Best answer wins a “No Prize” from me.

Peace, piece and let’s hear what you have to say NOW!

RJ

P.S. I will share my wackiest chick story tomorrow.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

One of the most important components of Seduction is the “vibe” you put out there – meaning, how women perceive who you are and what you give to the world when you approach them.

There will always be women who are simply unable or unwilling, for reasons that are not yours to figure out, to accept the gifts you offer.

I’m frequently asked: what is the right way to handle women behaving toward you in a very rude manner?

For example, blatantly insulting you while you both wait in line at a pizza shop for no reason? Or being rude to you as if she’s testing you, or as if she has more of a right to exist than you do?

First, realize that anyone who gets rude or angry at your genuine, decent behaviour has a problem. It is about THEM, not YOU.

Here are three ways you can powerfully handle the situation and turn it to your advantage:

1. Use humour. Shake your head, and say, “Wow..I hope you get over the guy who really f@@ked you up…do you spell that “Daddy” or “Papa”?
2. Just hold compassion for them as a person in pain and say nothing, or say, “Wow. I’m sorry I interrupted you while you were being miserable.” (Credit to Stephane Hemon of ideaGasms for that one!)
3. Challenge them to something better, say,“Wow..what a rude, cold way to PRETEND to act”. Emphasize the PRETEND.

A couple months ago, I was at Whole Foods and approached a woman with one of my tried-and-true pick-up lines – one that has worked for me hundreds of times.

Her response (with dirty look and loud disgusted sigh): “What the F@@k do YOU want?”

Me: “You know, I know what your boyfriend looks like.”

Her: “Really now? What DOES my boyfriend look like, since you know it ALL?”

Me: “I see his face in the mirror every morning when I shave.”

Her (really angry and almost shouting, not getting it): “Are you in my bathroom, m^#$*rf@@ker? What the…. F@@K?!?!?!?”

Me: (points to her, laughs hysterically, and then in mock drawl) “Well then…. looks like…. ‘Exit, Stage Left!’ for me!” (walks away, not concerned that she might be giving me the finger behind my back)

Again: when you don’t take crappy behaviour from women (and people in general, for that matter) personally, it doesn’t happen as much. But it still happens. When you approach women with integrity and good intentions… the spiteful behavior of a few meanies won’t trip your game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll be in charge as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

You’ll learn great tools and tactics to use in the initial walk up to guarantee you’ll never have to worry about what to say and that you are firing up her fantasies within minutes. Now, that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Click here and get what you need to powerfully handle the “meanies” – and SO MUCH MORE!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

My recent posts on women who “run hot and cold” have struck quite a nerve.

I’m getting a ton of e-mails and responses, so I know this is an issue that many smart guys like you, including those in my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program, need assistance getting handled.

Now, talk about “hot and cold” – this next letter comes from a student who is Sarging on a woman who goes from naming the kids and planning weekends with the in-laws to not returning his calls, just like that… and he just recently met her!

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The woman in particular is an attractive, 25 yr old small-business owner who seemed to open up very quickly. I met her friends and family right away and we spent a lot of time together. She talked about children’s names and eluded to “our in-laws.” She almost disappeared July 4th and within a week of extreme distance said “you’re not like anyone I’ve ever dated and I don’t know why I’m pushing away what I truly want.”

She bought me gifts and a card the second time we went out, text me many times throughout the day and seemed so sweet, compassionate and just wonderfully feminine.

I’m not sure what went wrong but it sucks, bad. What do you guys think? Did I kill the attraction?

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First of all, what does “open up very quickly” mean? DID YOU F@@K HER? DID YOU F@@K HER? DID YOU F@@K HER? (That’s a yes or no question – you did or you didn’t.)

Frequently in the “Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets” ezines I hammer the point that “dating is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with!” Why?

Because when the interaction turns to “dating,” women instinctively pull out their “checklist” of what the “perfect man” is and start rating whether you are “her type.” If you have not yet connected with her emotionally and set the “anchors” that make any “checklist” irrelevant, you don’t want to be “dating” her.

For the same reason, I’m not in a hurry to meet family and friends. It puts too much “meaning” on things, and immediately that often triggers a woman’s “is he REALLY the one” fractionation / emotional interruption mechanism.

Now, she’s talking about kids’ names and in-laws that early on? That means she is trying out that kind of thinking because she thinks it is how she SHOULD be thinking instead of wanting to go out with her girlfriends, get laid, have fun, etc. She’s trying to convince herself.

Right now, you’re in knots from her “running hot and cold” (the gifts and cards, followed by the “extreme distance”) because you are hooked on the validation and attention. So when she pulls it away, you freak out, get clingy, drive her away, instead of being aware of that response as it first arises and being able to redirect.

It’s time to break the “hot and cold” cycle caused by your need for validation by this (or ANY) woman, and find the woman (or women) who will just want consistent, steaming-hot fun.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Starting now, forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s emotional 180s, her fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, her last minute buyers remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other up until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.

With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll be in charge as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

Claim yours now, and stop letting her “give it and take it away” – for good!