So You F@@ked Up When You Approached Her?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many smart guys lose momentum on their girl-getting game because they allow their f@@kups on Sarges to block their path to moist pink abundance.


After a particular episode is over, they’ll stop and think,

“Why didn’t I say this?” 

“Why did I do that?”

“How could I screw up the goddamn Blowjob Pattern AGAIN?”
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“I’m Not Going To Sleep With You!”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It often comes up that a woman who has recently gotten out of a long-term relationship will be reluctant to sleep with you.

Even though she wants to, really bad.

ca_63290464_180A student of mine received an e-mail from a woman he had been Sarging and things were really heating up.  A little confusing with a “WTF” aspect to it, for sure.  But, check this out and then I’ll tear it up:

“I’ll be really honest with you here. I enjoy talking to you and I think you would be great in bed.  But there are a couple reasons why I’m not going to sleep with you. One – I am still very in love with my ex boyfriend. Two: I really enjoy talking about sex with someone that I’m not sleeping with. It’s just so much more honest. I’m sure that makes sense. See you Thursday, looking forward to it.”

It’s right in front of your face… Continue reading

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3 Great Boyfriend Destroyer Language Patterns

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the all-time favorite language patterns is the Boyfriend Destroyer.


Trust me. She has a “boyfriend”. Now what?

(For anyone who thinks the idea of a “boyfriend destroyer” is bad, evil, misogynistic, disrespectful, rude, pushy, or anything else I’ve been called on the Romance Racketeer talk shows, stop your hissy-fitting and read this first.)

Then come back, with fresh understanding.

At that point, it will be time to learn what happens when she says: Continue reading

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How To Be “The Greatest” With The Ladies

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of my favorite all-time sports legends is Muhammad Ali.

muhammad-aliNow, I am old enough of a fart to remember Ali boxing, in his prime.

Back when he was a young fighter, he was so fast, so unpredictable, and had such amazing reflexes that you could actually see the moment when far more experienced, polished fighters simply mentally “gave up”.

You could see the “I quit” look on their faces way before Ali actually knocked them out.

It was as if they were thinking, “Dammit, I’ve tried EVERYTHING on this guy and nothing is working. Even my best tricks, that always work, are doing NOTHING! What do I do now?”

In a sense, dealing with beautiful women can be like this, but the good news is  Continue reading

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