Can You Paint A Picture Of You In Her Mind?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Could you refer to yourself through a metaphor and have the woman understand it unconsciously as something that represents you?

Like, using this example a student brought up:

“Have you ever been to a museum and you see this beautiful painting in front of you (create a frame with fingers around face) and you just… enjoy looking at it… so much that you want to… take this painting home with you?”

His question: if he continued talking like that, would her unconscious mind understand that he was really talking about himself?  Or would it just create a weird anchor, like every time she would see a real painting she would think of him?

See, this is actually a very good technical question. 

First of all, while all humans think in metaphors and all humans are responsive and receptive to some degree, it varies from person to person, depending on:

• How well the metaphor matches to an experience they’ve had or imagined having.  As an example, if I talked to you using the metaphor of a paramecium moving towards nourishment, it might not ring your bell.
• How suggestible the person is, in general. Some people are hyper-suggestible, right out of the chute.
• The degree of rapport you have with that person already
• Her motivation to respond. If the metaphor is embedded inside of a communication that offers her something she really wants it will have more power.

For example, if I offer to teach a woman something about how she can feel more passion, the metaphors I use within that demonstration are going to be more readily accepted because they are tied in with something she deeply wants.

That all said, I’m not 100% on this painting metaphor.  Here’s the thing:

• I doubt many people, aside from all you art conoisseurs out there, have looked at a beautiful painting and wanted to take it home with them! I get what this student was driving at: he wants her to look at him, see him as beautiful, and take him home. But for most people, seeing a beautiful painting moves them powerfully and then that is it. They are on to the next painting! (which sometimes translates to “Exit, Stage Left!”)
• I doubt she’d think of him every time she saw a painting.

What would work better?

Ask her about where she finds beauty in life – the experience of something beautiful that really moves her. Use HER responses and anchor them to YOU.

See the difference?  See how this ties more into experiences she’s had or imagined having, how it’s something she feels passion for?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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