He Planned To Approach 100 Women! (Part 1)

Dear Speed Seduction® student,

Every once in a while I get such good emails from students, there’s nothing better I can do than to simply let THEM do the talking.

Here’s one of my all-time favorites from my “greatest hits” collection: a student’s “Sarge report” on his plans to approach 100 women. It’s a very long e-mail so I’ll post it in two parts (the second part will be tomorrow).

Dear Ross and seduction brothers,

From talking with the awesome brothers it became obvious from their comments that the only way to get better at walk-ups is to do a lot of them. So one of you suggested this approach, which worked very well: choose a number of walk-ups to do, and go with the EXPECTATION of getting shot down.

That’s somewhat paradoxical but that’s what makes it work. So I set my goal at 100. I’ve already done 50, and this is the half-time report.

It’s been FANTASTIC (aside from getting enthusiastic phone numbers from women who even have boyfriends and very positive responses). Going with the expectation of let me get another one on my list makes things a WHOLE LOT easier. There’s no hurt, no rejection, it’s just another notch. “Here goes number 33.”

INSTEAD of going with the goal of I am going to get this many phone numbers, and feeling good/bad depending on the outcome, go with the goal I’m just going to have fun getting shot down this many times and learning. Then, it’s piece of cake to learn.

SET a concrete number of approaches you want, and do it. You WILL be successful at doing that.

Basically, now, I feel comfortable approaching almost any woman under any condition (the train, a coffee shop, etc.). It really is a LEAP from where I was before.

My state is infinitely more solid… and while I can get better with very attractive women, I lead with much greater ease, I deal with most objections right away, and I’m able to instill comfort/ease/trust almost instantaneously.

I can only imagine what will happen when I get to 100. But I’m not worried about that… I just need to get 50 more under my belt.

Ross here again.  Look: already a great, usable strategy for increasing your success with women – and this is just part 1.

Do you see 100 women per day as you go about your daily life?  How about 100 per week?  Let’s say in the next 14 days you actually approach 100 women instead of just walking by them.  That’s an average of 7 women a day for two weeks.   Let’s say this gets you laid once.  Is that one more time than you would have had otherwise?

Would THAT beat a poke in the eye?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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